Re: I cheated and feel horrible!
First piece of advice is forgetting notions about "going back to that". It can't. What is done is done and there is no 'redo' button. So you build on what is left and create a new relationship with him.
The next piece is you really, really need to figure out your 'why' and fix it. By default, you are going to want to blame him or shift some of it over onto him. That's the marriage issues; totally normal issues too.... But it had nothing to do with that other relationship; Your husband can not influence whom you like or don't like or whom you sleep with or not. All you, your choice and you need to figure out your own why before you can even really help him.
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