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The Dating Scene Who says "dating is fun?" It can be, but it can also be very difficult as well. This section is for dating advice.

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Old 10-20-2008, 06:48 PM   #1 (permalink)
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I just started seeing a man whom I was attracted to 4 yrs ago met him at a party at his house my husband at the time did some work for him.He is a wonderful man and I am very attracted to him,hooked up with him on plenty of fish.
It is difficult getting back into the dating scene after being married.My problem is I am scared of losing this man and we have only been on 3 dates.WHY?
Went to his surprise birthday party that his kids arranged and his ex wife was there he said he was so sorry he had no idea that she would be there and that he was not attracted to her anymore.I am feeling very insecure and worry everyday that he is going to say sorry I don't want to see you anymore.
I know I sound like a pathetic young teenager but I am a grown woman.Any help is greatly appreciated
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Old 10-20-2008, 08:46 PM   #2 (permalink)
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You are probably worrying about nothing. Things sounds like they are going well so far. Just be happy and take care of yourself.
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You can't win at anything without taking some risks. It may work out, it may not but the best thing you can do is be yourself with him. If he is attracted to your core self he'll likely stick around. Dwelling on the possible negatives could lead to a self fulfilling prophecy. Good luck.
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You can't win at anything without taking some risks. It may work out, it may not but the best thing you can do is be yourself with him. If he is attracted to your core self he'll likely stick around. Dwelling on the possible negatives could lead to a self fulfilling prophecy. Good luck.


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Old 10-24-2008, 04:42 PM   #5 (permalink)
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You can't win at anything without taking some risks. It may work out, it may not but the best thing you can do is be yourself with him. If he is attracted to your core self he'll likely stick around. Dwelling on the possible negatives could lead to a self fulfilling prophecy. Good luck.
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Old 10-24-2008, 05:06 PM   #6 (permalink)
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yes its a good one, and i dont think you are at risk.

I know that the one I love will always stick around.

They just do.
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