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Old 12-05-2008, 07:33 AM   #16 (permalink)
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I've never really dumped someone.
why would you even think of it now? this "m" thing has been pretty cool. and it ain't like notching your bedpost to "dump" someone. it's not a badge of honor. and it's not really that easy.

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Now I'm thinking more about "C" than "M"! I want "C"!!!
you user!!!you used "m" to get your chops, now you wanna trade up! you dog!!!
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Old 12-05-2008, 02:55 PM   #17 (permalink)
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I dont think its bad that you are thinking this. thats the point of dating. if after one month you are losing interest, then i think you're just not interested in her, and that's ok. I never tried to work it out in the dating scene. i went with what i was feeling and moved on if i lost interest. but then that's just how i feel about dating.


It also serves as a learning experience...the faster you move forward the more difficult it is to break things off if you decide she's not the one for you. I think it takes a 'special' person to be a womanizing heart-breaker! (oh, by 'special' i mean 'selfish') So you may want to take things a bit slower going forward.
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Old 12-15-2008, 11:04 PM   #18 (permalink)
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All of a sudden, I'm feeling that things aren't going to work with me and "M".

1) she's leaving for Europe in 1-2 years for graduate school. I'm not doing a long distance thing
2) she's told me in the past that she has had 1-2 month flings with guys. I'm probably next
3) I lost my virginity to her the other night. She doesn't know I was a virgin. I'm happy about that (for myself), but when I kept going limp out of frustration and running out of condoms, she had an open box of condoms.
4) She tells me her fantasy dream guys, and they are all bad boys with piercings and tattoos. I'm the complete opposite of what her dream man would be.
5) Every time we go out, I'm paying for all the dinners. She doesn't really offer to pay and we've been going out for about 6-weeks now. The one time was when she bought pizza because we were watching a movie at her place. She also is taking me to a concert for x-mas which she bought the tickets. Granted, she DOES let me see her naked and we get to fool around every other night.

What should I do? I am just starting to have bad feelings about this.
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