Is he interested?
Not having been "out there" since before computers were commonplace, I don't really know the "etiquette" of chatting and online exchanges with members of the opposite sex. I'm now divorced and ready to get back on the horse again, so to speak.
I have recently reconnected with an old friend, someone I had a huge crush on for years when we were really young but I was always too shy to make anything of it. He is single and has been for some time now (last relationship ended about 3 years ago; divorced more than 20 years).
He is spending a lot of time with me online, 1-2 hours daily, and I wonder if it means anything. We mostly just make each other laugh, but there has been a lot of serious exchange in catching up (we were in touch occasionally over the years, but not much in the last 5). Does anyone have any suggestions for interpreting his behavior? Are there any "givens" I should know about (for example, if it's just chat, it's a 'given' it's not serious, or anything like that?)
I know I will likely be unable to determine anything, but it is some relief to ask and get some input. It'll give me something else to think about, at the very least. Thanks.
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