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Old 06-11-2009, 01:42 AM   #1 (permalink)
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What can I do with this guy?

He was flirting with another girl, I know it so I decided to break up

with him, when I finally told him my decision he doesn't agree so

he continue to go to my house and pretend to my family that we

are okey and our relationship was getting stronger. I love him but

I just want him to realize what he will lose when he doesn't stop

flirting with that girl.

What is the best thing that I can do? Please help!

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Old 06-11-2009, 09:06 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Who lets him in the door? Who allows the pretend to continue? You need to make it clear to your family that he is NOT WELCOME, and refuse to have contact with him. Why would you--he's acting like a jerk, both by flirting and by disrespecting your decision. YOU ARE WORTH MORE THAN THIS. Your decision is 100% yours and he doesn't get to ignore it. But you have to follow through with your family and with him. He'll get tired of his stupid game eventually, so just be strong. Good luck.
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Old 06-11-2009, 11:23 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Blatant humiliation works wonders.

Sounds like you don't actually want him gone - you just don't feel secure in the relationship. That about right?
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