Re: speaking for someone else
I hooked up with my current man (of 3 yrs) 3 weeks after he split from a long term relationship, we've since had 2 kids together and we've been through the ringer big time emotionally bringing our families together.
One thing I wish somebody would have told me three yrs ago: women grieve, men replace.
I love him tons so Im trying to make it work, but starting something so soon did not give him time to heal, work on his issues or anything. People told us it was too soon. We didnt listen. Now Im googling sites like this trying to make it work and a huge reason it has been sh rough was because we rushed.