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post #16 of 46 (permalink) Old 03-29-2014, 01:28 PM
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I'm very sorry, Maricha. It's a huge blow.

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I'm very sorry for your loss, Maricha. You and your family are in my prayers.

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Maricha, I am very sorry for your loss. I am sending you a great big hug full of warmth and keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
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I'm so sorry, Maricha. I am sure it is always hard to lose a mother, but unexpectedly, even more so. Sincere sympathy.

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I am so terribly sorry for your loss Maricha. It is a horrible place to be, the loss of a parent is crushing. Sending you strength from the other side of the world.
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My deepest sympathies to you and your loved ones.

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Dolly hugs M >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
As you know my mum died in November on what would have been her birthday having only being diagnosed the month before. It's Mother's Day today and I've had to stay away from FB because I just feel empty.

Take strength from those that love you and don't forget that you need the support too, you don't have to be 'the strong one'. Celebrate her life and remember her with love x

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So sorry to hear, sending you warm Aloha blessings to you and your Ohana. Malama pono
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Please accept my sympathies, prayers and support as well Maricha.
When good people miss you it says alot about you as a person.

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Maricha, I am so sorry to hear this news. That is so much harder when it is unexpected. Take extra good care of yourself and family.

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May you be so fortunate … To be surrounded by people who will help you get untangled from the things that are binding you. And, may you always know the joy of giving and receiving gratitude.
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I am sorry for your lost, my sympathies for you and your family in this difficult period.

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wow I'm so sorry,Maricha.There really is nothing else to say.It's such a blow to lose someone when you see them getting better.The only blessing is she had a few somewhat decent days before leaving,small consolation,I know. Sending positive thoughts your way.
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You're absolutely right, SB. She got to visit with all of the grandkids and I took pics of my kids with her. And I am thankful for the last 3 1/2 years... the kids were able to have a good relationship with her. Wonderful memories, never forgotten.

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So very sorry for your loss.
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oh Maricha... I'm deeply sorry for your loss.

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