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Dealing with Grief and Loss The grieving process is difficult. When we lose someone close to us, we go through many different emotions.

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post #31 of 46 (permalink) Old 04-02-2014, 12:07 AM
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So sorry to hear..

I went through something similar. First day in rehab, mom has a massive heart attack and dies the next day. She was 61.

You may never get over it but... things do get better in time.

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Maricha,

I'm sorry for your loss. Hope you are doing a bit better now that a few days have gone by.

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You must have been very close to your Mother Maricha... ..this is a beautiful thing...that she had many wonderful memories with her daughter ...walked on this earth...that she left a legacy of love behind her...it's why the loss feels so piercingly deep ...

May time slowly fill this great void you feel...

I say all of this because I am not really close to my own Mother...don't see her much....sometimes I wonder how I may feel when she passes, as I have been closer to friends in life over my own Mother... it's not how it should be...our lives are just so vastly different...she does her thing ... I do mine..

Sounds you have many loved ones there for you...this makes all the difference. You , your kids will always carry Grandma in their hearts.
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
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sorry for your loss...that totally sucks
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I am so sorry for your loss. I think you should try to focus on all the wonderful memories you have. I wish you and your family all the best in this difficult time.

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My most sincere condolences, Maricha.

Losing a mother is something you never get over. My brother and I usually have great laughs when reminiscing about her. That is our way of celebrating her loss. Remember the good times and the love. Celebrate her life and that helps make it a tiny bit easier.
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It's been 12 weeks and I've been doing ok. I do have days when I can't believe it, but overall, I'm doing ok. Same wiht dad and the rest of the family... Until yesterday.

Thursday night, my uncle, my mom's baby brother, went into the hospital after having a stroke. They expected he was going to die on Friday, which would have been 12 weeks to the day since mom passed. But, he woke up after they removed him from the ventilator. He told everyone that he was feeling better, and family was cautiously optimistic. Everyone went home that night. Then,, they got the call yesterday morning that my uncle had passed away. He was only 56 or 57. I think he told everyone that he was feeling better because he didn't want the "death watch" in his room. I think he knew. But, at least his kids and other family members were able to say goodbye. My aunt had to get something from the doctor so she could rest. Two siblings within 3 months... More than anything, my heart is beaking for my aunt. She has 3 half siblings remaining, all older than she is. She is the last remaining child of my grandmother and grandfather.

Anyway, thoughts and prayers are greatly appreciated at this time.

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Condolences

My prayers for you and your family for strength during this difficult time.
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Sorry for your loss Maricha.


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Dear Maricha You are in my prayers at this difficult time in your life. Keep close to the people who you love and who love you. Please keep posting here when you can. God's blessings on you and yours.

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So sorry for your loss.

I will pray for peace in your family and in your heart.
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Oh gee Maricha, I'm sorry for your losses and that this is all happening so fast.
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My condolences Maricha.
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