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post #91 of 139 (permalink) Old 12-31-2010, 08:38 PM Thread Starter
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Love ya. Long story. Yes she will kill me with out a thought. Sorry. Sons bday tofday anmd I sleep in thu ck again.
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I am in church. Told wife I was here. She is in denial of the mess that she has creatrd along with I. Take the house. Ask to do a mod on house and now there is no talk. Its all lost. Everything. I go back to UTAH empty and hurt. Court dates coming and I am in utah. I am forced to loose job in a way unless I can do remotely. Its all such a waste. Take house and move in kids alone and watch everything die. I feel dead. Its just so hard to take. One day at a time I guess.
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Living in truck from state to state with no home.How can one person do this to another and have no feelings in it. I am alone and empty and will set a goal till the end of jan and then start on my own here with nothing.
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I can't understand the destruction. What did she think was going to happen. Take everything and leave me to die. I hate UTAH. I miss home. I have one goal here. Get a job at home. Torrance. See my kids. Have a relationship that means something. I want it with one and one day when its all go she will look back and regret the love she lost as she only has it for her daughter and the kids and dogs. Been here a week and did not even see her. Its very sad
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Living in truck now.in the rain and snow.
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**** u wife
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I slept in the rain all night. Have to empty some stuff from my storage spot and dive to Utah. **** this. In probation office now just waiting. I hate my life
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I can't do utah anymore.
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First off-you need to stop using this site as a diary. You've noticed that you have not received to many responses. What's the history of issues before she left??
Jail for one...
Why did she kick you out??
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And what can we do to help guide you?

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First off-you need to stop using this site as a diary. You've noticed that you have not received to many responses. What's the history of issues before she left??
Jail for one...
Why did she kick you out??
Be more specific.

I don't see the title of moderator under your username. That means you don't have the right to tell someone what or what not to do with this site. If admin has a problem with these posts, I'm sure they're perfectly capable of handling things. I've seen them do it. Really.

OP...I've read each and every post you've made on this thread. I haven't offered any advice, b/c I don't have any to offer. In all honesty, you sound a lot like my ex. And that puts me at an immediate bias. Hope things work out for you.

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Well I went to utah and lived in a tent trailer for two months. She got a job here and was comfortable with the house my mov gave 30000 down on and room mates I left her with and her dogs and her daughter and her daughters boyfriend. She did not need me anymore. We were seperated 10 months and I was at my house. She came back a week before I left. I was nice she was evicted from fer apt. In the end. I am li ving in and out of truck. Used is what I c all it. So now I have a court date next week and then0 another to get me off a bull**** probation call that sheis using to keep me away. This was the plan all along. I will go into court next week to have probation reduced so I dant have to drive from utah to cali every month because that is 400 in gas and I can't rent and pay that. I have till feb 9 to keep position in utah as I am in cali now to take care of this court issue and a 10000 credt card court date she ran up with new laptop for her daughter and camera. My 16 year old left because she was mean to him. Lost custody of daughter over a bull domestic violence that her and her daughter teamed up and lied. Now this is the tool used to stay at house while it goes under and loose all. So I do court dates and go back. But I am looking for work here as an option. Its a mess for me not her. She sits at house while I liv e in truck. She could go to her moms but she would rather let me die on the street. That is my plan.
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She kicked me out so her dogs and her daughter and boyfriend could have run of the house. I talked here and two two girls in different states in same position o ver a 10 month seperation. That is why.
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I don't see the title of moderator under your username. That means you don't have the right to tell someone what or what not to do with this site. If admin has a problem with these posts, I'm sure they're perfectly capable of handling things. I've seen them do it. Really.
I think your missing the point.
How about tell the story in a clear concise manner so it's easy to make an informed suggestion.
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She sits in the house with a 4500 payment a month now. Pays 1500. Refuses to leave and reduce 10000 every 15days so I get something out of it.onlything I can do is exparte and force her out so it sales and all is not lost. She has me on prob ation where I have to drive back and forth to utah once a month I can't do it anymore. I have to ask court to move probation or I stay here in cali and live like a dog. I am trapped
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