Re: i feel like im losing my husband
It's common for men to not be able to express/experience vulnerable feelings (for your husband it could be sadness/depression, but that is not the only possibility. He could be feeling guilt, or loneliness, or anxiety about his own mortality) and to convert those feelings into anger instead. Brainstorm with him when he is calm about what he may be feeling and see if you can help him begin to put it into words. Keep in mind too that sudden changes in mood and behavior like this can be a sign of substance abuse.