Re: My GF's (Soon to be Ex) Killed Himself, Advice?
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Jeep, the guilt is normal. It's normal even if she'd been divorced already. Let her know that, and hopefully you can both be patient. Maybe you can get a therapist for yourself. Then with no pressure on her, invite her to a few sessions if she can handle it. If not, I'm sure therapy will help you deal with your side of this, which in turn will help her.
I married a widower and years later he has his moments, especially around the month she died and the week or so they wed. And it's okay, even though she's been gone 8 years. Maybe in the future it will be like that, but more since she has kids.
Last edited by Seasong; 10-11-2016 at 12:08 AM.