Re: I'm grieving like I have lost my husband
PTSD sucks. Go to the VA and ask them if they have any groups for spouses, reading material, counseling you can take advantage of, anything.
Your husband does NOT hate you. He is probably just trying to separate from you because he does not want you to hurt.
Just so you know where I am coming from, I am a Gulf War Vet, Doc says I probably have mild PTSD, along with other issues.
Take care of yourself and let you husband know you love him. If you FIL wants to get in to see him, maybe you can go together.