In 2007, My fiance and her children were killed in a housefire. I was totally devistated for quite some time. I went through a couple of bad relationships after that, I know now because I was not ready for them. I am now married to a woman that I love, but find myself always thinking about my fiance that died. I cannot talk to my wife about her because it makes her feel like I am still in love with her. The thing is I am still in love with her and always will be. I do not know what to do to not make my wife jealous or hurt, and at the same time cannot let go of my feelings I still hold for my deceased fiance. I know she is dead and my wife is alive, I have been told this by others, but that does not change how I feel. If anyone can relate, please share with me on what I can do for some peace. It feels like I have to keep it in and hide how I feel so it does not cause harm.
Last edited by hotshot; 02-08-2013 at 11:40 PM.