08-07-2009, 06:11 AM
Join Date: Feb 2009
| | Re: How do you keep surviving this?
My second ex called me on a Sunday and told me I needed to move out...I moved out on Monday. While I was moving she was meeting up with a guy she met on the internet...I was out by Monday night. He was in Tuesday...that was in July and they were married in November.
I met someone and was married again in December...and I've never been happier. It took 40 years for me to be able to find someone, I never gave up...never felt down...everything happens for a reason. I've been disparaged, accused, libeled, slandered, threatened and lord only knows what else that I don't know about coming from the second divorce.
You have to just understand that if it's not meant to be...then let it go. It hurts, it sucks, you question yourself and all the why's and how's...and that's normal. How you bring yourself out of it is more important...
Learn, be more patient and sure the next time...there will be a next time...