Re: How long do we stay in counseling going nowhere?
i can only advise based on my experiences. our first couples counselor was fantastic. she knew the right questions and the right hypotheticals to present. i truly believe that, had she not taken another job (school district counselor) that we would be back together and happy.
our secong counselor was a disaster. but only in the sense that he pissed off my wife so bad, she quit going. had we stayed with him, i think he was building toward as positive conclusion. unfortunately, i, too, quit going to him.
my point is, regardless of what you think is no progress, maybe your counselor is building to something. good luck.
separated, honoring wife and family daily, she deserves the best me i can give her.
4 kids g18, g12, g11, b7