Join Date: Feb 2012
Location: Central Texas/Brazos Valley
Re: how often is counseling needed?
When I first met my RSXW, she was already fastly in the process of seeing her IC, pretty much on a weekly to a semi-weekly basis. She had problems with an alcoholic H from a prior marriage; she had problems with three teenage kids who were underachieving and skipping out in school and embracing the goth, drug head, and tattoo culture; not to mention getting picked up by the local authorities for shoplifting and possession of meth with intent to distribute. They were even stealing from her home and then pawning items to help facilitate their meth and pot habits.
After marriage, we attended MC sessions weekly ~ with her going solo one week, me the next, then together on the third. The counselor was in NW Houston and we were roughly some 100 miles away.
Because of my RSXW's massive wealth, she paid all counseling bills. The counselor had always been a longtime friend of hers, so far as I knew ~ and almost always sided with her in any standing dispute between the two of us ~ largely because that's where her fee money always seemed to come from!
And with extremely rare exception, I always seemed to feel like a bastard at a family reunion every time that I went there, as I was almost always ganged up on by the two of them!
Glad that those days are now over! The only thing that I'd like to convey to that counselor is what a lying cheating skank that she has for a client. But then again, as long as the counseling tab is getting paid, then the counselor could really give a "rat's a$$" about the truth and morals of her client!
IMHO, I really believe that my RSXW is addicted to counsellors to solely vilify herself because she can't seem to even begin to make the first logical decision of her own accord!
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Last edited by arbitrator; 07-28-2015 at 02:24 AM.