11-14-2010, 08:25 AM
Join Date: Oct 2010
| | Re: Double Counselling - But not Relationship...Good IDea or Not?
A counselor to work on communication? Why waste that energy and time when there is no relationship anymore. You are separated. The only thing I can see in the future is the baby needing a father - your husband, obviously.
Now on the other hand, is he suggesting a reconciliation? Does he want to get back together? Because if that is the case, then you both have to work on the relationship which revolves so much on communication. So yes, a good counselor is definitely a need here.
It must be so confusing for you as well. You are pregnant with his child and yet you are separated. You must want him at times and yet you must hate him and want it to end too. This is so hard! I hope you have family and friends to get you through this. My best wishes to you. Get help, okay?