Join Date: Jun 2014
Location: Evergreen State
My MC experience
When I was married and having problems, I was lead to believe it was all me, so I started a IC. the problem was not just me it was us... I talked the ex to go to an MC however, in hindsight it was one of the biggest problems in our marriage. the MC was a man hater and she did everything to back my ex opinions, right or wrong, she brought yup financial issues, even though we had none. Tried to get the ex to sue me for future earnings.
this woman, was poison, as an MC she was terrible, filled my ex with bad ideas and tortured me in the meetings. She would situate the seating so I was isolated and both of them would beat me up.
Word to the wise find a good MC, ask around, ask for references, Go a few times and see what advice they give. If you both have that gut feeling run. We should have found another one. however hindsight 20/20. Not sure if it would have helped but all I know it was damaging and not productive in a positive fashion at all.