05-06-2011, 03:00 PM
Join Date: Jul 2010
| | Re: Individual VS Seperate
I go to individual therapy and my IC and I both agree that what is discussed is very one-sided. If I make a claim regarding my wife, she isn't there to defend herself.
The IC can probe all she wants but there still needs to be a bit of "am I getting the whole story here" attitude with her, otherwise she wouldn't be doing her job.
So while IC can be good, I still think that you both have to sit in front of a counselor and hash things out, even if the beginning focuses on him. Obviously the MS sees something there that needs exploring.