05-08-2011, 08:57 PM
Join Date: Apr 2010
| | Advice please
My wife and I we have been separated for more than a year and a half, the separation it self has been very very painful, after months and months of asking her to go to counseling she finally accepted the idea, I found a good counselor in AZ, although she told me a lot of things lately and although I do understand now her point of view, concerns and fears, and I do want to work out things for good, and avoid the pitfalls of the past, she told me that she's not sure if things will work out and if they don't I should let her go.........I don't know but I have the idea that she's basically saying yes to counseling with the purpose of looking for closure, and move ahead.
Can someone give me a clear input if that's how am I seeing things or am I really paranoid?
We've been married for more than 10 years, and although things were bad a couple of years, I do believe in redemption, forgiveness and working things out, we have a toddler daughter and none of us was involved in any type of extra marital affair.