Re: Marriage counseling by myself?
Yes, if you are trying to do marriage counseling it works better if both spouse's are willing to work together on the marriage. However, you would probably benefit greatly from some individual counselling to get your head on straight and work on your own issues. Once you become stronger and have figured out things better, if you still want to try to work on your marriage you can try to convince him to attend with you. The fact is you cant make your husband do counseling, so for now just work on you. Perhaps if he sees positive changes in you, he may be more willing to go with you in the future.