Marriage counseling doable?
I'm fairly new here and posted few threads about my marriage almost a year and half ago. I was very angry, sad and worn out over the state of my marriage. After talking with few people from this forum, I used the time to work on myself and save money.
Fast forward to now; I feel like we're in pretty much same scenario that brought me here, only I'm lot more resentful now. I was in IC for myself that lasted 6-7 months since hubby won't agree to IC, but I stopped attending because he was resentful of the time it took me away from minding the boys. I would go on the days he worked from home, so he could watch our youngest. So when I suggested I talk with my therapist while he was at work and I get a sitter for the youngest, to which he claimed he didn't want to pay for. So I stopped going. And now we're fighting more and I told him I was tired of him and our marriage, he suggested MC but expected me to do all the leg work of finding a therapist, doing the calls and initial consult. My takeaway is he didn't even care about my need for IC, and doesn't seem to care enough to go on MC to do some of the legwork on his own??
How do couples address this type of discord?
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