from roommates back to lovers?
I’ve been married to my husband for 11 years (no kids) and we both agree that we feel like roommates. I have felt this was for a few years and he has felt like this for the past year. We don’t spend much time together, no sex, different hobbies etc. We recently had our first MC session to address the “roommate” feel. The C gave us “homework” that addresses our lack of intimacy. For example, plan a date night - go out to dinner or light candles and watch movie etc. knowing each might lead to sex. Shouldn’t we WANT to do romantic things, or even simple activities together? Will forcing it really make things better? Has anyone gone through MC for a similar “roommate feeling” situation? What were the suggestions and what was the outcome?