04-10-2012, 01:45 PM
Join Date: Apr 2012
| | Re: Years of counseling...
I disagree. My parents divorced and they are both much happier where they are. It was a painful experience to watch, but it made my father more considerate and allowed my mother to marry someone that truly treats her like a queen. It's funny that since the divorce their lifestyles and personalities have totally polarized.
They didn't even consider MC, just split. It was much better that way.
I'm not advocating divorce, but my parents' marriage as also partially arranged, so sometimes divorce is the best option.
On the subject of counseling...
I just had my first session and I think it made everything worse. Out counselor was too resolution driven and really pissed off my BS.
Have any of you tried counseling and those online programs that say counseling is evil? I'm looking into Baucom's right now. Do any of these Work?