05-22-2012, 11:27 PM
Join Date: May 2011
| | Re: Made appt...now im scared sick
Originally Posted by heartsbeating
I was nervous going for the first time too.
Then I stepped into the room... and opened up about stuff I never imagined I would. I guess it was a good therapist for me. I guess you can't control how your husband will be. If he's not going to be open, perhaps based on past experiences, then he'll be doing a disservice to both of you. Maybe his lying at the therapist didn't help when going for his previous marriage.
I don't know what your issues are but maybe your husband can do what is needed from his end from a different approach other than therapy. Nothing wrong with that. If it's working for you though, do what you need to do for you.
"Victims; aren't we all" - The Crow