A little skeptical about this MC thing
This is a first time experiencing any kind of counseling so I don't really understand how it should work. So, I went first, told my story, wife was in a long term affair and I busted her. Next, which was almost 3 weeks later, wife went, told her story. Next appointment is almost 2 weeks away with both of us together.
Shouldn't the frequency be a little closer in regards to appointments? At this rate R will take 5 years if it even happens.
After I went first, wife drilled me as to what I said, I didn't care, I told her as she already knows pretty much the whole story because she was the star in the story. So she went, I figured I'd poke around and ask what was said by the counselor as far as our situation goes, wife told me counselor said I (me) need to change lol.
I would hope that there is a much better view of the situation and obviously I will give this counseling thing a chance. But if this is any indication of how things are going to go it might be counter productive to saving our marriage. I will proceed with an open mind but is this typical of how counseling goes?