03-06-2010, 10:55 AM
Join Date: Mar 2010
| | Re: getting married secretly.
It sounds like her mother is a skitz. She's just crazy. If I were you, I'd have a huge wedding and invite them to it. Or if you want, don't invite her.
My mom's mother tried to bribe my mom not to marry my dad, saying that she'd pay for her to go to college. My mom told her to shove it. It's really up to you.
Living without support from your girlfriends parents could have long term complications. Is she willing to live without her family if they reject her? What about future children, living without grandparents? This crazy mother-in-law might even try to take the children from you. And the constant bombardment of negative emotions could do a huge deal on your relationship.
If it feels right, go ahead. If the cons outweigh the pros, look at the situation from a new perspective. You might need a new angle on things.