what do i do??? she wants me to co sign loan
kid prego... she has just turned 19 (i have posted before) she is with a looser (really not a mom talking) he is 23 and sleeps on friends and family couches and never had a job longer than 2 wks he has no ged dropped out at 10th and well ok enough on him you get the point.
she was great in school great grades (top 4 in her class) got a full scholarship to local college all paid for works at the bank for 2 years Dad co signed for a loan for her to get a car and all going well... till
she met her soul mate (mister a**) well dropped out of school because prego and needed to go full time (even though i have insurance on her) moved out with him in his friend appartment then what ever reason moved out of there to his moms basement and well sooo much more...o he has a warrent for drugs things... gets better and better
here is my question or problem.... she went for another low loan for him to get a car... says because he needs to get a better job and needs a co signer she asked her dad he said NO... well he used more H* what the * and oooo no. and so she came to me... now i am in a pickel because Well even if i could my hubby would flip if i did, and i really don't want to but want to see my grand kid.... she already talked at moms day about moving home she hates living at his moms.... but still loves him... but fights all the time with him but then talkes of marriage and ?? i know she is mixed up..
how do i say no with out being mean? or pushing her away or do i just say no and take her leaving and hope she comes back??/ i am so mixed up...