As of right now my DH and I are separated. Which is a long story. I am angry with him and I am trying to let go of all of the anger but it is hard. Monday our daughter had ear tubes put in, not that big of a deal but I was a very stressed out mama about all of the “what ifs”. Anyways she did awesome with the surgery and well with the recovery. I am staying at my parents house for now.
This is the part that is bringing on all of the anger. He never called to check on her! Not even a facebook message. He called when I was giving her a bath and told my mom that he would bring over the ear plugs on Tuesday. He never did that. He hasn’t called to check on her at all. It is like he has dumped her off with me and forgot about her.
He talks all of the talk on how much he loves his daughter and I doubt it. Talk is cheap. I am sure there is love there and I am not the one to judge that.
It angers me that he couldn’t pick up the phone and call! I am not calling him because he told me not to call him unless there was something wrong with our daughter. Or if she was asking for him which she has only asked for him a couple of times since Friday.
How can I let go of this anger? Do you think I am over reacting?
This is the part that is bringing on all of the anger. He never called to check on her! Not even a facebook message. He called when I was giving her a bath and told my mom that he would bring over the ear plugs on Tuesday. He never did that. He hasn’t called to check on her at all. It is like he has dumped her off with me and forgot about her.
He talks all of the talk on how much he loves his daughter and I doubt it. Talk is cheap. I am sure there is love there and I am not the one to judge that.
It angers me that he couldn’t pick up the phone and call! I am not calling him because he told me not to call him unless there was something wrong with our daughter. Or if she was asking for him which she has only asked for him a couple of times since Friday.
How can I let go of this anger? Do you think I am over reacting?