01-16-2012, 12:46 AM
Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: New Zealand
| | Re: dating a seperated man who still lives at home (as roomates)?
Goodness what a mess. He needs to move out, sort his life and have some space to grieve for what he has lost. Then and only then will he be in a position to offer you any form of a relationship. He is quite capable of sorting out custody and access issues without living in the same house of his ex.
Be very careful, going down the road of having a relationship with someone who has more baggage than LAX is like walking through a minefield blindfolded. You have his past to deal with, his control issues, his trust issues and also, once a cheater ... you have heard the phrase a leopard doesn't change its spots, he may also do this to you too.
Lots of things to take into consideration. Make space for you to think very seriously about this. There is no rush.