His kids...I don't know what to do
I've been dating this guy for a few months. He informed me that he was still living with the mother of his kids (she broke up with him and wanted him to leave immediately). Apparently the mother had told him and his kids that she didn't want to spend time with them (the story is deeper than that but I don't want to put all of his business out there). I really like his kids and I offered him to stay at my place until he moved into his own. His kids are 7 & 6, and to say the least, very rambunctious, they don't follow directions well, the youngest will "test" you and be a jerk on purpose.
Their mother finally decided to get the kids for the weekend (she has cancelled many weekends prior) and of course the kids trash me to their mom. They told her I cussed at them, which I did. First for disappearing on me while we were in public and I had to find them and then for being absolutely disrespectful to me when their father left the house for a couple of hours (yea, yea, don't cuss at other folks kids...I say don't have kids that are so bad that people want to cuss at them). I have tried to be cool and calm with his kids but I'm over it especially after them trashing me to their mom. The mom is waiting for him to move out of my house. I think she wants him back, I don't even care if she does.
Am I making a rush decision by ending this relationship because of his kids? He's a good guy and we have a lot in common, same values etc. but I don't think it's worth it if I have to be trashed by his kids when all I'm doing is trying to look out for them. I love him very much and I thought we would be together for a while but now I'd rather be single.