I have been with fiance for close to two years. Soon after we moved in with each other, his son came and started to live with us.
I'd be real curious to know if this arrangement - his obnoxious, disrespectful teenage kid moving in with both of you - had been discussed BEFORE
you moved in together? Or, was it just thrown in your lap one day afteryou started living together?
I'm thinking it's the latter.
Look, that was your
house your boyfriend moved into and quite honestly, he's got a brass set of cajones just expecting you to become insta-stepmom and move his kid in and start taking care of him when you barely were getting used to living with each other
. I'm willing to bet your ex had no
problem letting you
do the kid's laundry, pick up after him, clean up the house after him, cook his meals for him and do everything ELSE the kid needed.
Funny how that works, isn't it?
Yet he apparently thought it was just fine that the kid continually disrespected you in your OWN home.
Well, I am super confused now. I guess he is taking his son leaving as fully my fault. He only took some clothing and left everything else behind. What should I do next? Should I box the rest of his stuff because I have no clue if this means it is the end or what. Please help as I am still feeling very numbed and not sure what to do next.
Who gives a crap what Mr. Self Entitled thinks. This ass seems to think anyone he gets involved with has to bend over backwards for he and
his kid who is obviously the result of bad parenting. That's what you get when you over-indulge kids - a disrespectful little brat like his son.
Throw his stuff in a few Hefty bags and let him know he's got one week to come get his sh*t or you'll be dumping it at the AmVets bin.
I'm not sure what 'closure' you think you need. You GOT your closure. This self-entitled douche bag up and left you without a word - he showed you EXACTLY who he is. I think he did you a HUGE favor - you just don't realize