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post #16 of 28 (permalink) Old 08-16-2016, 03:58 PM
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Re: Got a woman coming over. . .

Reread your sentence. It can be interpreted that the dad is doing the son's friend.

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Re: Got a woman coming over. . .

Um, no, this is my friend. Um, no, I plan to have an empty house. He's scramming I decided.

Although. . .although, I'm not certain there is anything wrong with hanging a towel on the doorknob for code and having my gf sleep over. I recall my ex-wife had a friend and they would go camping with their parents when younger. At one point, the parents would throw the kids out and her friend would bang on the camper, "Hurry up in there!" to her mom and dad as they carried on. I remember while humorous, the kids were in awe how affectionate and active they were with each other, that maybe this is how a marriage SHOULD be.

So what's sick in that situation? The parents having sex?

But that's not the actual plan.

Ya know. . .you spoiled married parents take yours sex lives for granted. Try to step out of your married box. I mean I appreciate the separate single beds and all for Wally and the Beeve, but I'm not sure that's reality.

And maybe I seem a bit confused. . .but maybe, I got you pegged! Ha! Don't know what to do about those tossed salad and scrambled eggs. . .they're posting again. Scannerguard has left the building.
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Re: Got a woman coming over. . .

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Reread your sentence. It can be interpreted that the dad is doing the son's friend.
I fixed the sentence. This is what I have a problem with....

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It's a good lesson for him to be home, even if he hears you. That's life.
I hope the OP is a decent guy who is considerate of his children. But the fact that this is being offered up as serious advice is disgusting.

Unless the plan is to turn the 19 yo into a sexual degenerate who only objectifies woman for his pleasure. Then that would be the route to go.

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So what's sick in that situation? The parents having sex?
No, I'm sure he understands adults have sex. It should be taught to a 19 yo to be something private, special and an intimate expression of love shared exclusively between two people. You teach them values THEN hope they learn by example. Your number one job as parent is role model.

Not cheapened like listening to a porn video through the wall. Would you be happy to know if your son knew if she was a moaner or a screamer? Or is her blowjobs are extra sloppy? How much respect to you think she will have for her after that?

Sad this has to be explained......

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Re: Got a woman coming over. . .

I have a 17 y/o son, and if I was i the OP's shoes, I would:

1.) Let him know that I was having a lady friend over to the house, and that she will likely be staying the night. Let the son decide if he wants to make plans to be elsewhere, or to stay in the house and keep a low profile and stay away from your bedroom. My guess is that sonny boy will elect to go somewhere else.

2.) Get a hotel room. I would consider it an investment in the relationship until other more permanent arrangements can be made.
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Not cheapened like listening to a porn video through the wall. Would you be happy to know if your son knew if she was a moaner or a screamer? Or is her blowjobs are extra sloppy? How much respect to you think she will have for her after that?
Geez. I am flattered you think my performance is THAT good (and it is) but I can assure you we aren't in my bedroom to put on any auditory show.

What do you married folk do (it's been 6 years since I was married) with kids being in the house and sex?

Cover each other's mouths?

Get a hotel room?

Just curious how it works in your world.

And maybe I seem a bit confused. . .but maybe, I got you pegged! Ha! Don't know what to do about those tossed salad and scrambled eggs. . .they're posting again. Scannerguard has left the building.
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Re: Got a woman coming over. . .

The kid is 19! He probably could give dad pointers (just a joke!). It's not like she is going to be screaming and the sex swing will break and the donkey and gimp get crushed! Jeez. It's your house. Pork whomever you want, discretely.
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Geez. I am flattered you think my performance is THAT good (and it is) but I can assure you we aren't in my bedroom to put on any auditory show.

What do you married folk do (it's been 6 years since I was married) with kids being in the house and sex?

Cover each other's mouths?

Get a hotel room?

Just curious how it works in your world.
Funny enough, my 9 year old was asking about me and my wife as we were taking about us splitting up. He was like, oh, is that what you were doing? Then he started making the noises. I couldn't stop laughing and cringing. Oh well. I remember asking my sister what that was when I was a kid. She said, mom stubbed her toe. How many times can she stub it, all night long?
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Re: Got a woman coming over. . .

I have an idea. . .I am going to make my contribution to the Married Folks here as an Ex-Married Folk and an actively involved Father.

Married Dads. . .I want you to go to your kids and tell them, "I have a hot woman coming over tomorrow tonight. She's got a killer bod and we've been getting hot and heavy over the last week with flirting and texting. I am so excited. My move is so smooth. . .get this. . .learn my move here - this works every time: I'm going to order in some Chinese, make Sangria for her, because she likes Sangria, flip on a movie and then get frisky with her about halfway through. Oh yeah. I'm scoring. She'll be putty in my arms.

That woman is YOUR MOTHER.

Now. . .I want you to SCRAM. . .all of you. Find some place to be. . .get on the phone to friends, grandma, get the backyard tent out, whatever. Let your mother know what you are doing and where."

You see, as fathers, we have a unique role - to inform our kids that in life and with the world, they aren't always going to be wanted, that they aren't always going to be the S**T at their jobs, in their social circle, whereever, and as of this moment - learn deal with it. Be independent.

Be scarce sometimes.

Kids need a Dear Old Dad to tell them this, don't you think? To reflect back on Dad when they are older. . .

And maybe I seem a bit confused. . .but maybe, I got you pegged! Ha! Don't know what to do about those tossed salad and scrambled eggs. . .they're posting again. Scannerguard has left the building.
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Re: Got a woman coming over. . .

When my parents wanted to take a nap, we were to told to go outside and play so we wouldn't make noise in the house. Noisiest naps I ever heard.

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Just curious how it works in your world.
Be discrete.

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Re: Got a woman coming over. . .

Which nineteen year old boy would not like a little money and a late night movie ticket with his friends.

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It's discreet, fellas.
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