Fight with ex and now we're not talking, 1 daughter
We split nearly 4yrs ago and we're divorced now.
Right through though we've kept a good working relationship for my daughter and we've done very very well compared to many l read about .
l could come around any time , spend time there with my d so that she didn't have to go out all the time to spend time with me , ex and l were often there both and talked ok. Yeah that part was weird and l often wondered if it was right and yeah it did often set me back too.
But for my d it worked out really well. But d would still come stay wkends or any other time she felt like too and ex and l were always in touch about d things .
But about 6wks ago we had a fight while l was over there. She even pretended to call the cops ad told me to get out, she went of her nut , and in front of d.
She hadn't been paying one of our credit cards a few mths and l was in the middle of financing my house so if they found out about the card not being paid it could fk my loan.and l've been trying all this time toget back on my feet from the divorce, so yeah l raised my voice a bit l was pretty pissed but not that much and wasn't yelling.
But since, ex hasn't answered any text and l'm worried about things we d bc ex and l aren't communicating. Ther'sa lot of stuff going on for d right now.
l haven't been in the house since and l either pick d up from school and we go out from there or she meets me out front.
l hate it like that bc it's harder on d and makes her worry a bit about mum and l and the sitch.
l think ex's om might also be pushing her to break contact . ex has been a different person since she's been with him.
Anyway 2wks ago l was dropping d off , sitting out in the car talking and ex came out to get something out of her car , she looked up and gave a nice smile and with ex this usually means she wants to make a mense but we're still not in touch again yet .
l text ex a few times about d things after the fight over a few wks, no reply. so even though she smiled that night ,l haven't text her again yet . l've been worried it might push her away more. d was in the car to that night and ex might've only smiled at her , l couldn't tell for sure. She did look at my eyes a bit though but ex is slightly cross eyed and it can be hard to tell.
Thing is, l hate it like this for d and we are for sure not being able to keep up and do as good a job as we could before in looking after her.
l'm just not sure how to get things back on track.
Any thoughts or suggestions , appreciated .
Last edited by whitehawk; 08-25-2016 at 09:19 AM.