my wife is letting her parents over with no notice to me
Hi, we are having major fights with my wife, to the points that we almost are talking about divorcing…
The issue is that my wife, strongly believes that she can let her parents come and stay at our place, for weeks at a time, without letting me know or asking my thoughts on that or permission.
Last time her mam came to our place for 4 weeks and I’ve learned about it just a day before, while my wife knew about it for long time.
It was busy time for us, as we had major renovation going in our house and were planning our long time awaiting vacation in a month.
I got furious. My wife told me that, i need to go to see psychiatric, because is completely normal for her parents coming over whenever they/she wants with no consultation with me.
Just to give a bit background: Shortly after wedding, i agreed for my wife's parents to move in to our 2bd/1bath 800sf apt with her teenage sister until they find job and will be able to afford renting apt by them self. They lived with us for 4 or 5 months that were nightmare that made me almost hate them - in my opinion they are bit lazy, spending money like crazy on the best things as they would be rich and then asking for help others hard-working peoples who try to think about future.
Is she right? Am i crazy? Please help with your opinion and thoughts
Is she right?