STBX moved out, dealing with not seeing child
Friday my STBX moved out. My daughter went with her for the weekend as this coming weekend is my birthday and she'll be with me. I will also see her every Tuesday and Thursday as well.
I love my daughter and to anyone that sees us, it's clear she loves me. My STBX and I are dealing with this as well as can be expected. I see us being friends eventually, hanging out with our daughter at events.
But right now it's hard. I wonder why, if I am such a good dad, why I cannot see my kids every day (I have a son as well from a college relationship. He lives an hour away but his mom and I also get along great and I now see him all summer in addition to my regular visitation). I know I am struggling with this change but it bothers me. I feel like I am being punished for something. It bothers me that abusers get to see their kids daily, but a loving dad cannot.
I am just venting and if admins wish to remove this, I understand. But if anyone has any advice, I am all ears.
To my fellow Americans, hope you all have a great Thanksgiving.