Re: People who find fault in others homes
Everyone has a little different way of living. You could probably find plenty of fault with his lifestyle, too, if you wanted to.
Do you feel guilty about anything he says? Is there anything you have put off doing?
If so, let his comment be what motivates you to getting that thing done. And then shake off the rest.
One of the deepest feminine pleasures is when a man stands full, present, and unreactive in the midst of his woman's emotional storms. When he stays present with her, and loves her through the layers of wildness and closure, then she feels his trustability, and she can relax. -- David Deida, The Way of the Superior Man