This is all very sad. It touched my heart. I've got a few questions and comments. Take them for what they are worth. Hopefully, they will get you to think and start to act. Sounds like you have simply been the baby maker and you and your husband have been the overseers of the children. I honestly don't think you or your husband were ready for any of them. But, with such little information, it's tough to tell.
How much time do you spend doing quality things with your children. Who takes the seven year old to school and picks him/her up?
How are they disciplined? Do you do it or do you leave it to someone else? Who do you leave it to, if that is the case?
What fun things does your oldest do in school that you have helped with? What did you do to help?
Are there any school activities that you and your husband have gone to see? I guess I'm thinking of little plays or choir or some sort of Christmas or Holiday festivities. How did you help to prepare him/her for the activities?
When the three year old gets out of hand, what do you say/do?
How often do the children get out of hand and drive you crazy? What is it they do to make you so miserable?
Do you make dinner or does someone else? What do you make?
How about lunches for the children? What do you do for lunch for the seven year old? What do you do for lunch for the three year old?
Lots of questions. I'm just trying to get a picture of what is going on.
I had bad things going on back then, i was really really stressed and unable to focus on my own health so when i was 28 weeks pregnant i almost lost him.
I had PPD with my second baby im not sure how long it lasted
I do not think its the right time because my sons are taking all my time and also think two kids are enough i dont really see why my huaband still want more
Its so busy and loud because as we all know children love to play and being loud and careless is so much fun to them. To be honest, i have a nanny to help me most of the time since my husband is barely around he only shows a bit of help during the weekends otherwise its just me and the nanny who take care of them.
We only get that like once in a while since hes always busy with work and im taking care of the family
You could say once in a week
No she's not but i might be able to
Right, its surviving i guess
Have you seen your doctor about your depression? Have you told her/him about how you are tired and don't look forward to each day?
Have you talked with a psychologist about these issues? When was the last time?
Are you on any medications for help with sleep? Do you sleep well any time? Do you smoke, drink or do any drugs not prescribed by a physician?
Do you have friends you spend time with? How much time do you spend with them in a week?
Tough questions. You don't have to answer. I felt obligated to understand where you are coming from, but I don't have to know. Thanks.