Why are young men having such a difficult time communicating
I just got a surprised visit from my son's girlfriend or such I say ex-girlfriend. She took the day off from school to come see me because my idiot of a son broke up with her. I asked her what happen and she said she does not know. He would not talk to her. She heard from some friends that he was talking about breaking up with her. So, she asked why and he said it was complicated and did not want to talk about it. WTF?
So, she was crying and ask me if I knew anything. I said no but he was just a stupid boy, who can't express his feelings well. So, after having a long talk with her and trying to reassure her that she will be ok, I found out she went to Mexico and saw an old friend there. So, I think someone of those foolish kids told my son that she saw a boy there and now he thinks that she cheated. The old friend was never a boyfriend, just someone who knows her family. So, my son and his friends decided she cheated and they all stop speaking to her.
Young people drama.
Last night, I gave my son a bottle of perfume for her because I did not like it and thought she might like it. My son told me that I should stop giving her stuff and not to get too close to her. Not realizing he was already broken up with her. I asked if everything was alright and he said mum, you don't need to know everything about me.
I am trying to get him to learn to talk but nothing is working with this boy.
She is such a nice girl and I really liked her. My son is a good kid, with no problems expect his addiction to his Xbox. He is involued in a lot of sports and is involved in youth development and leadership. So, he is always busy and is only home on Sundays. He has taken classes on communication and he does speech/debate, so how on earth he can't talk to his girlfriend?
Anyone with similar stories/trials?