My girlfriend's baby talks come back to haunt me
My girlfriend is obsessed with having children, More specificly - Having my children. I have known her for 7 years and have been dating her for 2 (our 2 year anniversary is 5 weeks away). I love her and care about her a lot (and vise versa) but recently she has been driving me crazy with this baby talk.
It all started when her best friend got pregnant almost a year ago. She was heavily involved through out her bf's pregnancy (I was as well, Her bf is like a sister to me) and eventually became godmother to her bf's baby girl (I was choosen as godfather). Since then she gone overdrive into this baby craze. Always telling me how she cant wait to have my children, what she will name them, so on so forth.
About two weeks ago I got sick of hearing it all and laid down some cold hard truth on her: We are a young couple (both of us are 23) who have only been dating for 2 years. We are too immature to have children right now, Let alone think about having them. Wait a few years (2-3) and then I will be more open about the idea but until then we gotta bury this thing for the time being.
What a huge mistake that was. She broke down crying (I immediately starting saying I was sorry and tried to calm her down) but to my suprise she wasnt crying about the rant. She is pregnant (3 months, 2 and a half when this arguement happend) and I pretty much told her (through my rant) that I didnt want children at this point in my life. She took some clothes and left, She has been at her bf's house for the past 2 weeks.
To be honest, I dont know what I will do. Thankfully, I have been saving money since I started working at 13 (my father's idea) and I have a rather large sum saved up (a little over 20,000 at this point). I plan on using all of that for the baby (god I hope she isnt having twins). I havent spoken to her much but we are talking (thats a start). I have been reading baby books, looking for supplies, looking for a new apartment (I currently live in a one bedroom, I am looking for a nice two bedroom that will be perfect for the baby), and dealing with a ton of other things on top of this. I have talked to her today and we will meet up and talk tomorrow about things, I hope this goes good.
I just wanna know if anyone can give me tips on what to expect for the future, Thanks.