Re: Is it okay that husband wont stand up for me when it comes to his family?
First, thank you for your service to our country.
No, it's not okay, for him to say things like "my sisters want to cut you"
what is that? What kind of psycho says that to their own wife?
And if he's running and calling his Mom every time you guys have a disagreement, argument, or need to make a major decision, well then I am sorry to say, that this will indeed make it very difficult to have a normal, successful marriage.
Try telling him this won't do. Tell him to either cut it out, or you'll be out. This is what I would do in this particular situation. Because of the total disregard he has shown for you, and your feelings. Not to mention, no man should threaten his wife "through" his sisters.... that is just nuts. The first thing he should have said to his sisters if they said that about you is " Don't you dare talk about my wife in that manner"
If counseling, or therpay will not work, please dont' stick around in an abusive marriage. What he is doing to you, is not right.
His family has no business treating you this way, and it will unfortunately only get worse. If he is that much of a momma's boy, then it's not likely he will change any time soon.
Tell him to grow up, and stand up for you.. or get rid of him, Before you have any kids... please don't get pregnant while all this is still going on... Trust me, it will only make things a lot worse.
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