06-24-2012, 05:52 PM
Join Date: Sep 2009
| | Re: Crazy ex!!
There's really nothing you can do about the texts at this point, but I would save the ones you believe are coming from mom through your daughter's cell, if possible. As for your phoning and texting your daughter, your ex isn't required to allow anything on her time that's not specified in the order.
I know this is disappointing and must make you feel helpless. But remember that mom's sucky attitude will likely come through to a judge. It's not that these issues don't matter. It's just up to the judge as to how much they matter. Custodial parents are expected to facilitate the child's relationship with the noncustodial parent. Keep documenting all attempts to contact and see your daughter and all responses from your ex. Do consult that attorney and let him/her guide you as to what to do with this documentation.
You said you had an enforceable order before? Was that before her "fake serving" you and getting sole custody? What did that previous order specify as far as your visitation schedule? i.e. "1st, 3rd, and 5th weekends from 5pm Friday night through 5pm Sunday night" etc. etc. Does your current order specify any days and times?