[Tikii]

No, I'm not pregnant...
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[Gaia]

Originally Posted by Tikii

Actually I don't. I have cysts on my cervix, which can make my cervix incompetent with time, and I may have to have a partial hysterectomy because of the amount of cysts on my ovaries. My time is quickly closing in. I don't have a normal system.

Ok.. so you want to get pregnant but there's a problem with your ovaries and.... this problem is putting a time limit on you being able to get pregnant? Is that correct?

You haven't found any treatment options for this problem?

[Tikii]

Basically, and we have tried medications and have had no luck. We are seeing a specialist next month to discuss options.
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[Gaia]

I hope you find something that helps. If you can't then don't discount adoption.. even adopted kids can be a great joy. Good luck next month Tikii.

[Homemaker_Numero_Uno]

Probably the cysts are mechanically preventing sperm from reaching your eggs. I bet seeing a competent reproductive specialist will set things right. It sounds like you are well aware of your issues and desires and have a plan. Give it your best shot and if you don't reach success on that path, switch to Plan B and if necessary Plan C, all of which I'm sure you have up your sleeve. In the meantime, do all you can to make sure you will have time with your child/ren when he/she/they arrive. I don't think there is anything wrong with strongly desiring children in your life and feeling afloat at sea without them. Biologically and spiritually, we are designed to have children. Some choose not to, or in spite of everything, can't, but invariably children cross their paths in one way or another, and so everyone contributes one way or another to the next generation.
I bet whether you have your own children or not, you will come across at least one youngster you will feel a bond with, Native Americans and others call these spirit children/spirit parent relationships. They are very special. You will feel a sort of instant recognition, that's how you know. It's even more so when the spirit child is your own. So may that happen to you.

[Tikii]

Thanks. I'm just not sure adoption is what's best for us.
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[Tikii]

My main problem is that I a am not producing mature eggs. Thanks!
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[Knicknaks]

hey tikii i understand ur desire to get pregnant and do it naturally! i had my son when i was 19 and it was planned as it was all i ever wanted, being a mother is the most wonderful thing in life and i hope u are succesful in your path to conceive!

I am now married and want more children but mu husband dosent want anymore and i feel lost and alone as he dosent understand how important it is too me to have another child, be a mother and the feeling i get knowing a child is inside me!

i wish you all the luck in the world and hope and pray you are blessed!