07-22-2012, 12:03 PM
Join Date: Mar 2010
| | Re: Serious Problems And Need help
No-Idea, welcome to the TAM forum. I'm sorry you are going through such a painful experience. I strongly recommend you see a clinical psychologist -- for a visit or two by yourself -- to obtain a candid professional opinion on what it is you are dealing with. The two most likely explanations, as you already know, are hormone changes caused by the pregnancy or strong traits of a personality disorder.
If the latter were involved, however, you or her family would have seen red flags starting much earliler -- typically about age 14. Do you know if she was abused or abandoned in childhood? If not, the most likely issue is a hormone change. What is puzzling about that being the problem is that she turned on everyone (including her own family) only a week after marriage, at which time she was only about two months pregnant. Such strange, abusive behavior also can be caused by certain drugs and by a recent brain injury. But those causes are less likely and you make no mention of either occurring. Take care, No-Idea.
Last edited by Uptown; 07-22-2012 at 12:07 PM.