08-25-2009, 05:01 AM
Join Date: Aug 2009
| | My husband accused me of stealing my childs money
For about 6 months now, my husband has had a real issue with money, and how I spend it. As far as my daughter is concerned, I cover all her costs (gladly) which includes school fees, clothes, food, toys etc. I have a stop order on my account which goes into her savings account each month also. Any other money that goes in that account has been given to her by my father. This morning my husband asked me where her bank card is and I told him I have it. He then told me very sarcastically that I must put it in the safe because he is more than sure I have spent all her money. She is three years old. Why would I take my own daughters money? This accusation has left me crushed. I do everything for this child, he maybe buys her clothes twice a year, thats it. If I have anything extra at the end of the month, I spend it on the family. I dont buy luxury items, I dont even have my hair done because its too costly. I would rather spend money on the two of them. What does one do when you are accused of such things? We have been married 9 years and I have stuck by him through thick and thin. I often give him money to pay his debt. I am so hurt because I never thought he would stoop this low.