Hope she finds something out soon, but I think as long as her mother is behind her with this "dreaming" it may continue for some time.
After high school she wanted to take a year to find herself, now all these art and gym classes. She only works part time and has never worked more than part time.
You'd think her mother would push her a little harder, but she doesn't.
My husband says as long as she is freeloading on her mother and her mother allows it, she will never grow up. I can't believe her mother is allowing this as her mother, my husbands ex DOES WORK and is a hard worker, so its pretty mind boggling for my husband and I to see this going on.
Stepdaughter is majoring in partying mostly
Hope she gets serious about something because we will not be taking her in should she fall out with her mother.
I changed my ideas a lot too at her age BUT I WAS ON MY OWN, SO WAS MY HUSBAND. That she lives free with her mother and not doing anything TO GET A JOB is what worries us.
She has never worked more than a 15 hour week and she is going on 20 !!! and the year after she graduated high school, she was only working 15 hours a week.
I was on my own at her age, my parents pushed me out... and I am thankful for that. The ones I knew who were living like step daughter either became drug addicts and died young or got married and had a brood of kids they couldn't control.
Either way is not good. Everyone needs to get serious about finding work and after high school should at least be working full time !