Re: I think I married a freeloader.
Yes, PBear, we talked about finances, obviously. We decided to leave the home in my name, I would continue to pay the mortgage on it every month, and in return he would pay some smaller bills (electric, tv, what have you) and start hustling a little for my business to offset the cost of the mortgage.
This is both of our first marriage. Not sure how I am supposed to keep him from "getting away" with saying nothing? Take away his toys? He's a grown man. It's confusing.
Now that I think back on it, it sounds stupid, I should have demanded 50/50 from the get go. We have dated for several years.
I blame myself for allowing this to happen, now how do I get out of it?