Re: HELP childsupport is killing my marriage
In addition to our other issues, H and I have a child support issue as well. He's been great about paying! Very honourable. But we are suffering financially. He too, refuses to go through the proper channels to get the payments lowered, even though it's almost certain that we'd win. He's afraid the ex will wind up with more, so we continue to suffer! I tell myself, that it's not forever (his kids are 13 and 15), and when it's over we'll have a huge party to celebrate the end of the gauging. His child support payments plus his kids education savings plan equal my entire yearly salary.