I think my husband is stealing money from me
Recently my parents sent us a huge amount of cash as a gift. About $3,000. They wired it to my husband's bank account. We don't have a joint account. I don't have my own bank account so they have no other option but to wire it to his account. However, when I asked him to check it to see if it has gone through, he mentioned an amount which has a bit of discrepancy compared to the amount my parents told me they had sent through. The discrepancy is about $200 dollars. Why do I have a gut feeling that he's not telling me the truth about the actual amount that went through? If he's actually stealing from me, how do I bring it up? How can I confirm this if my instincts are correct? And how do I keep him from stealing from me? These amounts are not huge amounts, but I don't understand why he has to sneak in instead of asking me straight up?
If this info helps, I earn more than he does. At the moment, I set a budget for our bills, food, savings and if there's extra money - we normally have a nice dinner or treat our kid with a new toy or something similar.
I appreciate your thoughts / advice. Thanks.