Re: Red flags for financial infidelity?
Traits? Probably the same for regular ol’ infidelity…selfishness, a sense of entitlement, a need for instant gratification, deceptiveness, etc.
Red flags / actions / warning signs?
Lack of transparency with paycheck (bonuses, raises, etc not disclosed)
Undisclosed credit cards
Undisclosed inheritance / other funds from family / small loans
Lots of trips to the post office (Secret po box, or not wanting to mail payments from home mailbox)
Resistance to allowing access to online accounts
Lots of cash transactions
Unexplained ATM withdrawals
‘losing’ receipts constantly
Padding common purchase like groceries or gas with gift cards or cash back
Usually high purchases at stores (perhaps merchandise that can be returned for cash, sold on craigslist, etc)
Run a credit report (don’t tell them before you do)
Keylogger (get account passwords)